When you get your hands on these, then you will be seeing the true person, and these are some inspired and burning spirits once you see past their ruse of being gently invisible. Their true self is mostly discovered through their literary or artistic productions. There is a place in every INFJ where they are so removed from this world and its petty miseries, that what you are actually seeing in many of them is a husk of sorts, it is not their true self. Read some of their writings sometime, if you have a chance, which you likely won’t, as INFJs are pretty secretive. You will not necessarily have an inkling of this until you have glimpsed the INFJ in their natural environment where they rule supreme. You will have little idea that this person you are standing next to and perhaps holding a conversation with, is one of the most awe-inspiring and creative geniuses you could perhaps chance to meet. Now, this is all true as regards the INFJ’s outer mode of presentation. They instinctively resist categorization and so if they sense that they have been carrying on in one mode for too long, they will change it to something else. Their personalities are difficult to peg down. If the person they are talking to is too passive, they will take the active role.
INFJs have a tendency to balance out interactions such that if the person they are talking to is too active, they will take a passive role. Because of their chameleon quality, they will embody whatever their delicate gyroscope tells them to embody at any given time. You could be talking with one and have no idea that you are talking to a person of this type. Typically, how this manifests is that an INFJ will be hard to notice. This is achieved via their auxiliary function of Fe, which I will call their chameleon function. The reason for this is because of their ability to blend in with the environment they are in at any given time. INFJs are one of the hardest of all types to type.